So, It's Summer and the Kids Are Home...

The first week or so after school is out can be ominous for a family depending on your situation. Why? The family has gone from a very structured lifestyle to ,"What do we do now?" As much as we like to let go of routines, young children especially find routines very important as a source of security that all is right with the world. So, how do you enjoy summer and fill the need for a family routine? Have a flexible summer routine! What would that look like? That depends on the needs of your family. It is still very appropriate and enhances family happiness to have a regular bedtime and a time when everyone needs to be up, fed and dressed. A few basic things can help with the rest of that. For instance, a plan that includes when "screen time" is available to them or a day of the week that is set for playdates. Every adult member of a family lives for "FOB" time, or flat on your back time that lasts about an hour. This usually takes place after lunch, but before dinner as a time when children enjoy books, puzzles, quiet drawing or even sleep and the adult in the home gets a break!
Does our current economic situation have you staying at home this summer? Check out your local community websites for lots of free fun available to you. If you live in the Chicago area most museums have a free day AND Navy Pier has free fireworks every Wednesday and Saturday night! Be sure to check out your local library for their fun summer reading program as well. Many restaurants have a day of the week where kids eat free with paying adults! Sit down as a family and map out a plan for your time together.
Summer is a wonderful time to enjoy the beauty of the creation God has given to us. It's also a time when families often create life-lasting memories together. How can you put those two things together? Your family has been given the gift of time to strengthen your family bond and keep it centered on Christ. I pray that all who read this have a safe, God-filled, awesome summer.